The root cause of this issue isn’t that women are boring, per se, but that women are bored.
Most men have hobbies. There are guys who can spout off basketball stats for hours. There are guys who will talk for hours about their online roleplaying game character or play video games for eight hours straight. I've often discussed foreign policy issues at length. Even when our hobbies are shitty, men are passionate about them.
Women aren’t like this. They don’t have hobbies. The day of an average woman who has a job involves working, eating, and sleeping. The high points of her day are what restaurant she stops at or orders from after work, who she talks to during her lunch break, and maybe watching Netflix, wasting time on social media. If she’s actively dating, maybe she meets a guy for drinks after work. If she’s close with her friends or officemates, maybe she meets some of them for drinks after work. She pretty much lives for the weekend, where her activities consist of eating at restaurants, drinking at bars, dancing at clubs, listening to music, and watching television. Eat, drink, consume media, and sometimes hang with friends who are doing the same things. This is the life of a woman.
Can you imagine if all you did was work, sleep, eat, and go out for food and drinks on the weekend and maybe hope you met a girl? How cripplingly bored you would be? How you would never have anything to talk about and how empty your life would feel?
Women aren’t much different. Women are bored, and they have no idea how to entertain themselves. They are dependent on consumption to be entertained. Constantly consuming food, drink, and media. This is why the government panders to women with women's month, maternity leave, and other female-only benefits, by the way. Happy women make good consumers. It’s good for the economy. Happy men save money and retire early. That’s less good for the economy.
When you meet a woman for a first date, she’s not just boring. She is bored. She is looking to you to entertain her, because without you, all she does is work, sleep, eat, drink, and consume media. She doesn’t have any hobbies. Going on dates with guys like you is her hobby. This is what she does for entertainment.
Some guys get very angry about this. They stamp their feet and scream that women aren’t worth it, and that no man should put any effort into entertaining women in exchange for sex. Not me.
Women are bored. All they do is drink and consume media. Their life is literally empty without you. How hard is it to be a little interesting, a little fun, and a little entertaining when you’re sitting next to some bored girl whose only hobbies are listening to music and watching Netflix?
She is a blank slate. This is your opportunity to lead the conversation, to show a woman a good time when she is incredibly bored and down for anything, and to literally get laid for having fun.
Remember, women are bored. When you see a girl in line at Starbucks staring at her cell phone, this is not an important message from overseas. She’s not closing a major business deal. She’s just bored. You walking up to her may be the most interesting thing that happens to her today. Even if you fuck it up and she laughs at you, you still may be the most interesting part of her day. How cool is that? By taking life by the reins and actually living it, you can be the most interesting part of any woman’s day.
Look decent, recognize when a woman is bored, and fix that for her, and getting girls can be easy.
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